I was wondering why anyone gets on a dating site? I have been on a few dating sites, and you find someone you are attracted to, talk to them, find out you have all sorts of things in common, but then find out NO ONE wants to RELOCATE! Thats the problem, everyone likes where they live!
I was wondering why anyone gets on a dating site? I have been on a few dating sites, and you find someone you are attracted to, talk to them, find out you have all sorts of things in common, but then find out NO ONE wants to RELOCATE! Thats the problem, everyone likes where they live!
Well depends on the person .As for me I would move to be with that special someone (If I Ever meet her).For a lot the roots they set down can bind them to a spot. If no one ever makes attempts to find their "Perfect Partner" They will never find them. Example,I may want chocolate cake , but have to make an effort go to the store to get it, if I don't make the effort to go to the store to get the cake I will never get any.When I get there they may be out of Chocolate cake , but I may find somthing just as tasty there.
Well depends on the person .As for me I would move to be with that special someone (If I Ever meet her).For a lot the roots they set down can bind them to a spot. If no one ever makes attempts to find their "Perfect Partner" They will never find them. Example,I may want chocolate cake , but have to make an effort go to the store to get it, if I don't make the effort to go to the store to get the cake I will never get any.When I get there they may be out of Chocolate cake , but I may find somthing just as tasty there.
You're right - a lot of us like where live whether it's due to temperature, family, friends etc. I like to be close to my family since it's key - parents, siblings and children. So I guess point it out right away when somone contacts you from out of your comfort area but when looking for friends - anywhere goes since chat,email,phone and snail mail bridge the gap nicely.
You're right - a lot of us like where live whether it's due to temperature, family, friends etc. I like to be close to my family since it's key - parents, siblings and children. So I guess point it out right away when somone contacts you from out of your comfort area but when looking for friends - anywhere goes since chat,email,phone and snail mail bridge the gap nicely.
These were already said but I guess I will repeat them anyway. (it's easier to repeat then come up with something on my own lol) Oz and True had a good point about asking this question before you invest that much time in getting to know someone. True was also right that you may need to do the relocating. I am thinking there may be more to their not wanting to move then liking where they live or even something to do with work. It may could be that if you were to ask why they wouldn't move you would find a deeper reason and see why it would be better for you to make the move. One more thought on this, if you are not willing to move then maybe you should shorten your search area, find someone that already lives close. Just a thought, good luck finding your special someone.---Tom
These were already said but I guess I will repeat them anyway. (it's easier to repeat then come up with something on my own lol) Oz and True had a good point about asking this question before you invest that much time in getting to know someone. True was also right that you may need to do the relocating. I am thinking there may be more to their not wanting to move then liking where they live or even something to do with work. It may could be that if you were to ask why they wouldn't move you would find a deeper reason and see why it would be better for you to make the move. One more thought on this, if you are not willing to move then maybe you should shorten your search area, find someone that already lives close. Just a thought, good luck finding your special someone.---Tom
I like this US of A country so I am not against moving to another place but I have certain areas that I would never move to.
As I said before...I will not move unless it is for a job promo or an awesome, challenging job. Not for love again. I did that before and it was a ruse and I even had to pay for my own move.
Good luck 2Eighteen
I like this US of A country so I am not against moving to another place but I have certain areas that I would never move to.
As I said before...I will not move unless it is for a job promo or an awesome, challenging job. Not for love again. I did that before and it was a ruse and I even had to pay for my own move.
I have relocated twice in the past and it was out of my element. I will never relocate again, this time if I find someone, they have to consider relocating to where I live.
The only reason I would relocate would be for a career upgrade or a definite job that has been definitely been signed on the dotted line.
I have relocated twice in the past and it was out of my element. I will never relocate again, this time if I find someone, they have to consider relocating to where I live.
The only reason I would relocate would be for a career upgrade or a definite job that has been definitely been signed on the dotted line.
I agree with Oz, you need to ask the important questions first off. Also, on profiles, they usually state if they are willing to relocate or not.
My boyfriend is more than willing to relocate to where I live and he lives in another country. But this is also something we discussed right off from the beginning.
Good luck!!
I agree with Oz, you need to ask the important questions first off. Also, on profiles, they usually state if they are willing to relocate or not.
My boyfriend is more than willing to relocate to where I live and he lives in another country. But this is also something we discussed right off from the beginning.
I agree with Oz, as usual! (lol!) But, I'd like to add that it seems (from your post) that you want the woman to relocate, not yourself. So, maybe the women are put off by the idea that YOU aren't willing to relocate?
Just a thought.--True
I agree with Oz, as usual! (lol!) But, I'd like to add that it seems (from your post) that you want the woman to relocate, not yourself. So, maybe the women are put off by the idea that YOU aren't willing to relocate?
