Just wanted to thank you for enjoying my blogs or being stirred enough by them to push me to the gold for a week. I wasn't even looking at how many comments I got - I just really wanted all of your feedback.
So, if you are interested in what I have been doing, here is an update.
I sent off some " hello " emails to people that have winked at me or commented on my blogs. I went and sent like 15 emails to various ladies in the Las Vegas area more...
Hello to all of you special people !
Just wanted to thank you for enjoying my blogs or being stirred enough by them to push me to the gold for a week. I wasn't even looking at how many comments I got - I just really wanted all of your feedback.
So, if you are interested in what I have been doing, here is an update.
I sent off some " hello " emails to people that have winked at me or commented on my blogs. I went and sent like 15 emails to various ladies in the Las Vegas area to work on getting that super sexy BBW crew together. I also had a good time enjoying the extra things I can do being a member such as seeing who has viewed my profile. Isn't it interesting when someone views your profile but then doesn't take it beyond that? They must of read something that they felt wasn't compatable or something that turned them off.
I also think it is interesting when women look at me. Why are you looking at me ? I admit when I first got on I checked out the local ladies to see what the competition was..LOL ! There are so many gorgeous, kind and generous ladies on here. So the competition is stiff !
Anyway, I am sorry to just babble, I actually do have a topic question. There are certain profiles that do not appeal to me and I just pass them by without even clicking on them to find out about the person. I just wanted to get some feedback on what is a deal breaker right out the gate with you.
For example :
If a man does not have a photo, I am less likley to click on the profile to find out about him. Additionally a person's
" introduction phrase " can also set the tone for me and possibly be a glimpse into what they are about..such as if they say
" Looking for a Naughty BBW to make me their love slave " Well, then I know that guy is just looking for sex or cheap thrills or a mother figure..LOL !. Also if you do get beyond that and click on to see the profile and see that he has no preferences and doesn't say hardly anything about himself....then I question his level of seriousness.
Can I be so bold as to put Mr. Butterbll on front street ? I want to use him as an exapmle, so class pay attention - there will be a quiz in the morning ! His phrase is " Smile ...you will use more muscles that way " How can that not make you smile ? That is a prime example of a great phrase. Also his photo is appropriate and friendly. He is not all naked covered in oil snapping a shot in front of his PC in some dark creepy room that looks like his basement. So kudos to you !
What do you think ? I am sure there will be people that read this that will benefit greatly from this feedback because all of our goals is to make connections.....Right ? So help those good men and women out there to at least be in the running ! less...
OK I'm late on this one but I would have to say your profile is checked out because of the cover you are showing. With those looks the book has to be at least skimmed.---Tom
Deal breakers usually are poor use of the English language, the desire to "hook up" only, expectations that thet feel they are the gift to womankind, etc. I can deal with no picture but really, it's not that difficult to put up a picture. Especially if you're serious.
As for checking out profiles, it's as Amuse wrote, curiosity. It's interesting to see where people are from, what their interests are, etc. and usually it's those who write here within the blogs that I view.
For that I shall cast a SPELL on you......now lets me see....he he
Firstly....may your BEARD turn to SILVER...
Hey Ariesram, or should I silver beard?? LOL
See my wand can still work its magic, even when its broken.....can yours???
From the silver wand fairy
p.s. Time to start the kissing part of the spell...before its too late .... he he xxxx more...
Quoting: Originally posted by ozredhead62
HA HA
Do not make fun of me AriesRam!
You have no ideas who you fcuking with.
For that I shall cast a SPELL on you......now lets me see....he he
Firstly....may your BEARD turn to SILVER so that everyone will know that you have been touched by the SILVER wand.
Now for the spell.....
For the insolence and arrogance of not being able to SEE.
This spell is designed and made especially for thee.
For the one that is named and know as the Ram, from now on you will suffer being know as the Lamb.
For all the talents and qualities you think you possess, the one thing missing will become your only quest.
For the joy and happiness that you hope that life brings,
Well Aries, DARE you to update you pics NOW !! Haaa HA xxx
Hey Ariesram, or should I silver beard?? LOL
See my wand can still work its magic, even when its broken.....can yours???
From the silver wand fairy
p.s. Time to start the kissing part of the spell...before its too late .... he he xxxx less...
You couldn't cope with a recent photo! Look at how you've gone all weak at the knees, just by looking at one thats 4yrs old. I couldn't do that to ya...it would finish you off woman!.he he.xxx
Couldn't help yourself, could YOU?
Just wanted to see me finished OFF, and I guess you just had to HELP me! he he xxx
For that I shall cast a SPELL on you......now lets me see....he he
Firstly....may your BEARD turn to SILVER so that everyone will know that you have been touched by the SILVER wand.
Now for the spell.....
For the insolence and arrogance of not being able to SEE.
This spell is designed and made especially for thee.
For the one that is named and know as the Ram, from now on you will suffer being know as the Lamb.
For all the talents and qualities you think you possess, the one thing missing will become your only quest.
For the joy and happiness that you hope that life brings, you had better start kissing ass, and make THIS fairy sing.
Well Aries, DARE you to update you pics NOW !! Haaa HA xxx
Quoting: Originally posted by AmuseMe What was the original question?? lol
I'm with you. Dungeon pics with greasy nudes are NOT attractive to me, and I stay VERY far away from those profiles!
You asked why women look at your profile.....
Hi, No I went off on so many tangents I forgot what the hell I was asking to begin with ! LOL ! I don't have a problem with men or women looking at my profile, I just wish the ones that did would wink. I mean the ladies could do the "I want to more...
Quoting: Originally posted by AmuseMe What was the original question?? lol
I'm with you. Dungeon pics with greasy nudes are NOT attractive to me, and I stay VERY far away from those profiles!
You asked why women look at your profile.. well, your activity on the blogs here places you in the public eye more than that if you were just using the chat or search features to find a mate. When you throw yourself out here in blogland, everyone who visists the site can see you pretty much immediately and therefore you will get ALL KINDS of lookers.. just curiosity mostly. I looked at yours for the same reason I look at anyone elses... I see an person that is attracting me either intellectually or otherwise, and I feel the need to read more about them, like getting to know your neighbor. Nothing is implied, and I wonder why some people are so protective of their public profiles?
Hi, No I went off on so many tangents I forgot what the hell I was asking to begin with ! LOL ! I don't have a problem with men or women looking at my profile, I just wish the ones that did would wink. I mean the ladies could do the "I want to be your friend wink", however I know sometimes people read the profile and feel like you wouldn't be compatable with them for friends or anything else.
The real question, though well camoflauged in the blog, was what qualities of a person's profile makes it un attractive ?...Like unsightly photos, or people who have no preferences at all or do not tell you anything about themselves...whatever, I was trying to get a general feeling going of what makes a profile over looked.
Sorry for the confusion and babbling, feel free to slap me ! less...
I think VegasAngel would prefer a visit from her 'Fairy Godmother'...NOT the 'Wicked Witch from the North'. Haaaa Haaaaaaa! xxx
HA HA
Do not make fun of me AriesRam!
You have no ideas who you fcuking with.
For that I shall cast a SPELL on you......now lets me see....he he
Firstly....may your BEARD turn to SILVER so that everyone will know that you have been touched by the SILVER wand.
Now for the spell.....
For the insolence and arrogance of not being able to SEE.
This spell is designed and made especially for thee.
For the one that is named and know as the Ram, from now on you will suffer being know as the Lamb.
For all the talents and qualities you think you possess, the one thing missing will become your only quest.
For the joy and happiness that you hope that life brings, you had better start kissing ass, and make THIS fairy sing.
Well Aries, DARE you to update you pics NOW !! Haaa HA xxx less...
Ha! Aint seen Mrs Palmer and her 5 lovely daughters, for MONTHS now...you'll be surprised to hear. Not since i've been seeing Mrs Nsa & Mrs F'buddy.xxx Have a nice day. ha ha ha.xxx
Oh Damn!!! How could I forget??
You're the "make em love you and leave em" guy.
Between your fan club/harem, your nsa's and f'buddy's, mmmm I bet your days are good. Lucky man! I can see you smiling from over here.
Ha! Aint seen Mrs Palmer and her 5 lovely daughters, for MONTHS now...you'll be surprised to hear. Not since i've been seeing Mrs Nsa & Mrs F'buddy.xxx Have a nice day. ha ha ha.xxx
Oh Damn!!! How could I forget??
You're the "make em love you and leave em" guy.
Between your fan club/harem, your nsa's and f'buddy's, mmmm I bet your days are good. Lucky man! I can see you smiling from over here.
Well what else could a man want?
Guess that has you a covered for the next 20 years or so? Have fun then....see ya. ha ha xxx less...
I'm with you. Dungeon pics with greasy nudes are NOT attractive to me, and I stay VERY far away from those profiles!
You asked why women look at your profile.. well, your activity on the blogs here places you in the public eye more than that if you were just using the chat or search features to find a mate. When you throw yourself out here in blogland, everyone who visists the site can see you pretty much immediately and therefore you will get ALL KIND more...
What was the original question?? lol
I'm with you. Dungeon pics with greasy nudes are NOT attractive to me, and I stay VERY far away from those profiles!
You asked why women look at your profile.. well, your activity on the blogs here places you in the public eye more than that if you were just using the chat or search features to find a mate. When you throw yourself out here in blogland, everyone who visists the site can see you pretty much immediately and therefore you will get ALL KINDS of lookers.. just curiosity mostly. I looked at yours for the same reason I look at anyone elses... I see an person that is attracting me either intellectually or otherwise, and I feel the need to read more about them, like getting to know your neighbor. Nothing is implied, and I wonder why some people are so protective of their public profiles? less...
It starts with a WINK, V.A.
Don't bother NOW,it's TOO late... when you HAVE to tell someone to send you a wink. xxx he he.
I have winked at many a fine male specimen. A few have returned my wink only to sit there like a rock asking " What Next ".....so I had to sell my body on soul on the blog page to get me a free week membership in order to contact some men that are too cheap to get a membership to contact me. LOL !
It starts with a WINK, V.A.
Don't bother NOW,it's TOO late... when you HAVE to tell someone to send you a wink. xxx he he.
I have winked at many a fine male specimen. A few have returned my wink only to sit there like a rock asking " What Next ".....so I had to sell my body on soul on the blog page to get me a free week membership in order to contact some men that are too cheap to get a membership to contact me. LOL !
OK...'hard' or 'floppy' backed? (oh,i do make myself laugh sometimes, how do i get away with it) he he.
Well both really!
Hard backed because they are so impressive looking and can stand up regardless of where you want to put them.
Soft backs because they are easy to handle and manipulate.
Making yourself laugh???? mmmm
Well you know what they say happens when you have Mrs Palmer visit too often??? ha ha xxx
Quoting: Originally posted by sparkles2002 when I first joined and went into searching profiles, I was looking for that immediate attraction, but very quickly learnt not to judge the covers...I no longer search the profiles, just tend to loo...
Sparkles that is wonderful news, I do hope that we hear that another one bites the dust real soon.
Best of luck xxx more...
Quoting: Originally posted by sparkles2002 when I first joined and went into searching profiles, I was looking for that immediate attraction, but very quickly learnt not to judge the covers...I no longer search the profiles, just tend to look at the profiles of anyone that has viewed, winked, sent a mail or added me to favourites and being your very friendly sparkles lol, I do reply to all that sound sincere, not all reply back, but hey thats their loss.
One face in particular that I replyed to in my first few days here was not a cover that I felt any attraction for (i think he looked a bit of a serious soul) but WOW...lovely surprise between the pages...he has made me smile and laugh every day since that first contact,he lives within hugging distance, we're taking it slowly and if that magic doesn't happen or things dont work out? I am still glad to have met this very special man with his wicked sense of humour...I'll keep you all posted;-)
Sparkles that is wonderful news, I do hope that we hear that another one bites the dust real soon.
Best of luck xxx less...
Quoting: Originally posted by sparkles2002 when I first joined and went into searching profiles, I was looking for that immediate attraction, but very quickly learnt not to judge the covers...I no longer search the profiles, just tend to loo...
Oooooh Sparkles ! Congratulations ! Love is in the air everyone...it has bitten some of our own !
Quoting: Originally posted by sparkles2002 when I first joined and went into searching profiles, I was looking for that immediate attraction, but very quickly learnt not to judge the covers...I no longer search the profiles, just tend to look at the profiles of anyone that has viewed, winked, sent a mail or added me to favourites and being your very friendly sparkles lol, I do reply to all that sound sincere, not all reply back, but hey thats their loss.
One face in particular that I replyed to in my first few days here was not a cover that I felt any attraction for (i think he looked a bit of a serious soul) but WOW...lovely surprise between the pages...he has made me smile and laugh every day since that first contact,he lives within hugging distance, we're taking it slowly and if that magic doesn't happen or things dont work out? I am still glad to have met this very special man with his wicked sense of humour...I'll keep you all posted;-)
Oooooh Sparkles ! Congratulations ! Love is in the air everyone...it has bitten some of our own !
when I first joined and went into searching profiles, I was looking for that immediate attraction, but very quickly learnt not to judge the covers...I no longer search the profiles, just tend to look at the profiles of anyone that has viewed, winked, sent a mail or added me to favourites and being your very friendly sparkles lol, I do reply to all that sound sincere, not all reply back, but hey thats their loss.
One face in particular that I replyed to in my first few days here was not a cover more...
when I first joined and went into searching profiles, I was looking for that immediate attraction, but very quickly learnt not to judge the covers...I no longer search the profiles, just tend to look at the profiles of anyone that has viewed, winked, sent a mail or added me to favourites and being your very friendly sparkles lol, I do reply to all that sound sincere, not all reply back, but hey thats their loss.
One face in particular that I replyed to in my first few days here was not a cover that I felt any attraction for (i think he looked a bit of a serious soul) but WOW...lovely surprise between the pages...he has made me smile and laugh every day since that first contact,he lives within hugging distance, we're taking it slowly and if that magic doesn't happen or things dont work out? I am still glad to have met this very special man with his wicked sense of humour...I'll keep you all posted;-) less...
